When you’re seeing a woman, it’s very likely that she’ll want some sort of unpredictability from you – whether it’s from your general routine or specifically from the attention you show her. It displays an intriguing side to you since you won’t be viewed as too boring. If you’re new to this concept, here are 5 psychological tricks to maximize a woman’s interest:
Make a Solid First Impression
It should be known that in order for any of the following psychological tricks to work with a woman, you have to make a solid first impression.
This means that on your first date, your ability to attract her through charm, personality, intelligence, body language and appearance will dictate how much she cares for you after that point. If you don’t spark her interest initially, she won’t care for anything you do.
This step heavily depends on you. If your style is more calm and smooth, use that. If it’s more loud and humorous, then use that.
Don’t completely switch who you are in the hopes of attracting her, because not only can she see through that, but you might also end up regretting being inauthentic.
However, also be open to pushing past your comfort zone and trying something you haven’t done before. For example, if you have a track record of showering women with compliments on first dates that never lead anywhere, try reserving your compliments for the next time you see her (if there is a next time).
Don’t Text Her After a First Date
Even if a woman thinks you’re very interested after the first date, the no contact rule afterwards will have her second guessing.
The reason this maximizes her interest is because her doubt in yours creates mystery. And mystery creates a sense of unpredictability.
Predictability bores the majority of women, so even the slightest sense of the inverse has an alluring effect.
As tempting as it will be to text her, don’t do it. Wait until she does as this signals that she really wants to see you again.
If she doesn’t, remember to think abundantly and wait for the woman who passes this test.
Show Her You Have Priorities
If a woman texts you but you’re busy with something else, tell her that.
You don’t even need to tell her what you’re doing – the thought alone that you need to limit distractions suggests that you’re taking life seriously, which she’ll be drawn to. Because it doesn’t come across like you’re trying to impress her, this is one of the more subtle of the psychological tricks.
But don’t blow her off because you want to make her think you have better things to do. If you tell her you’re busy, actually be busy. Lying will only dampen your own self-image, which can hurt self-confidence.
See here for more information on why confidence depends on self-image.
Think and Behave Confidently Around Her
Most women can agree that a self-confident, self-assured man is very desirable. Men who properly integrate this into their personalities are seen as capable in times of distress or catastrophe and willing to stand up for themselves if confronted. These qualities are masculine, hence why such men are desired.
But be prepared to actually prove you’re confident if you’re tested in any way, otherwise it’s just a facade that she’ll respect you less for displaying.
Furthermore, ensure your lifestyle is such that you’re able to truly feel confident, since that’s the basis for all confident behaviour.
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Have Other Options
It’s in your best interest to have at least one other woman that you’re seeing while seeing a new woman in your life.
It not only expands your options if things don’t work out, but it also signals that you have the capacity to attract other women.
This is a view that she’ll secretly like, but she won’t say that once she finds out. It’s likely that she’ll react angrily or in a disinterested manner because it’s not socially acceptable to be forthcoming about having more than one woman in your life.
In reality, women like men who are desired by other women. It usually means they’re exceptional physically, mentally, resourcefully, or all of the above.